How can I avoid forclosure deficiency?

I lost my job. I can not afford my mortgage payments anymore. I tried everything with my lender to help me out. They do not want to help in anyway(indy mac mort.)..So I hired attorney which cost $2500.All they got out of my lender was 6 months with only couple hundred off which did not help .the 5 months now that i'm in , i fell way behind on other bills and i still can not afford mortgage payments..i'm living off unemployment. this is their reason why they won't help.They do not have a program for unemployed poeple....I now have a forcloser date on my home at the end of this month. I did some research and found out i can get hit with a forclosure deficiency.."this is so unfair" I'm losing my home because i have no income and to find out i can possibly be sued for the amount owed is insane..I can never come up with that kind of money...Please anyone out there who have information on this please help me out,,How can I avoid the Forclosure Deficiency? All help would be greatly appreciated...