Advice anyone? parents? moms? dads?

Wow...his response was wrong. He came at you in the wrong way. He should of tried to fully understand why you felt that way. Because I hate to say it but some kids can make you feel that way. They push you there and he must of never knew what that felt like. If you feel you need to see a family therapist then do. It shows that you still love your daughter and you want to rekindle the relationship. You also need to find a way where you two can have separate time alone. Talk to a friend or family member that can support you on seeing a therapist. Find ways to relieve your stress when it becomes too overwhelming. I wish you the best.